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We are posting letters we have written to new puppy owners in the past who asked common questions that arise in the first days after bringing a new puppy home.
 
This time is traumatic for everyone.  The puppy is upset...his world has been shattered..he doesn't know you, he cries for his Mommy and is alone.
 
Please do not expect "love at first sight" or instant bonding and affection from your new puppy...he is a very intelligent creature and he is confused as hell about his suddenly changed circumstances.  The bonding, love and loyalty will soon emerge as you care for him and earn his affection and trust.
 
There is no more loyal or inteligent or loving dog than a German Shepherd....but you must earn that loyalty and love.
 
Much like bringing a human baby home...there is going to be upset for you and your family too.  While you don't have 3am feedings and diapers to change...you do have a potty schedule to setup and you have an upset puppy on your hands to comfort and soothe as best you can.  There will probably be lost sleep.   Fortunately...this does not last for months..it just lasts for a few days or weeks and it gets better in just the first few days.  
 
It is more than worth the trouble and this trying time will pass before you know it.

Just this week, 3 Days after bringing his new Harmony German Shepherd Puppy home. Bob writes.....
 
"Lyle and Kathy Williams,
 
I thought you'd like an update on your pup.  Right now he is snoozing at my feet as I type this note.  We are slowly bonding and he pays attention to Paula and I as good as a puppy can. 
Lots of treats (single pieces of the Diamond food) and praise.  He is a lot of work though and we have questioned our sanity and decision.  I keep reassuring that it will be worth it soon.  We have had several rough nights with his crying and yelping. Last night was the Best, but one of us were up every 2 hours letting him out of the crate and outside.  How long do you think that it will be until we can make it thru a night?  I'd really like some sleep! 
I have a vet appointment tomorrow for him. 
We have not decided on a name, the right one that fits will be found soon.  Thinking of "Pilot".
Here is a picture  caught at a quiet moment.
Best regards,
Bob "
 
WE WROTE BACK TO BOB:
 
"Bob,
 
It sounds like a great name!  It sounds like he is already assuming "control" of your "plane".. or rather unconsciously trying to anyway.  LOL
 
As you know, even as puppies they are very smart dogs.. and if you are not careful - he will Tran You to come to him.. by fussing.
 
The first few days afer bringing a new puppy home are going to be the roughest time for you and for the pupy.  Normally, by the end of a week to 10 days, he will be mostly calmed down and it will be much much easier.
 
Of course, one he feels "at home", comfortable and safe...  then we move on to the "terrible twos" equivalent..  meaning teething on your favorite shoes and furniture, if you are not alert.  But, you know it is worth it.. and this is so much briefer and easier than it is with kids!
 
It is best to go get him out of the crate when he is NOT crying... that way he doesn't always think that crying, whimpering, howling or yelping is going to always summon you.   That is Not a good habit to get started.    So, I'd recommend that you wait for the crying to pause, ...and then go get him (when he is quiet) to take him out for potty - if it seems like it is about time to do that.
 
It is very similar to the behavior of a baby.. but, thank god,it doesn't last for months.  potty traiing and sleeping through the night take just a few weeks at the most to be completely done.  It gets better day by day actually.  Some pups are essentially house-broken in 2 or 3 weeks.
 
There has to be a balance between resonding to him when he might really need to "go" and avoiding having him training you to come on his command. 
 
Remember to say the same words whenyou take him out to go potty..  those words like "go outside" and "Go do your business" or whatever words you choose will become commands for him to go to the bathroom.  And, always praise him when he "goes", so he comes to know that is what you want of him.
 
Having to take a puppy out every 2 hours to go to the bathroom is a little too often to have to go potty - even at this age.  Surely he isn't going potty every 2 hours.. every trip outside?  He should actually be able to ""hold it" 4, 5 or even 6 hours if timed right even at this age.
 
TRY THIS:
I would feed him for the last time of the day at around maybe 5:00 or 6:00 pm and then withhold food for the night; and, of course take the water away too around 6:00 pm.  Take him out Immediately after the last evening feeding of the day and then take him out again one last time right before you go to bed.  Stay out there until he at least pees if possible.  Walkign aroundwith him can stimulate thepotty.. as does taking him back to the same place to go potty each time.
 
Very first thing in the morning, take him out to potty.  And then feed him and return his water to him.. and the day starts again by taking him out right after eating.   Hopefully, he will not have gone potty in his crate overnight.
 
Now,if he goes potty in his crate.. assuming it is a large crate, you might try dividing the crate with some fence wire, plywood or something sturdy to makeit smaller... just big enough for himto lay down comfortably..  then he will really try hard not to go potty if he possibly can..  they hate to "go: and just lay in it.
 
The ......
 
THIS IS A PAGE BEING RETYPED.....WOULDN'T YOU THINK YOU COULD JUST COPY AND PASTE FROM AN EMAIL?...But..NOOOOOOOO...it has to look all weird (see below) .  We will get back to this page as soon as we can.  1-12-04 11:30pm  Sorry it is hard to read..
 
WE WROTE BACK TO BOB:
"Bob,
 
"Pilot sounds like a great name!  It sounds like he is already assuming control of your "plane".. or rather unconsciously 
"Pilot"
                                    sounds like a great name!  It sounds 
like he is already
                                    assuming "control" of your 
"plane"..  or rather unconsciously
                                    trying to 
anyway.  LOL. 
                                    
 
As
                                    you know, even as puppies they are very smart
dogs..and if you are not careful - he will
                                    
train You to come to him...by fussing.
 
The
                                    first few days after bringing a new puppy 
home are going to be the roughest time for you 
and
                                    for the puppy.  Normally, by the end of a 
week to
                                    10 days, he will be mostly calmed down 
and it will be much much easier.   
 
Of course, once he feels "at
                                    home", comfortable
and safe...then we move on to the "terrible 
twos" equivalent..meaning
                                    teething on your 
favorite shoes and furniture, if you are not 
alert.  But you know it is worth it....and this
is so much briefer
                                    and easier than it is with 
kids!
 
It
                                    is best to go get him out of his crate when 
he is NOT crying... that way he doesn't always 
think
                                    that crying, whimpering, howling or 
yelping is going to always summon you.  That 
is Not a good habit to get started.  
                                    So, I'd 
recommend that you wait for the crying to pause,
...and then
                                    go get him (when he is quiet) to 
take him out for potty - if it seems like it
is
                                    about time to do that.
 
It is very similar to the behavior
                                    of a human
baby...but, thank god, it doesn't last  for
months..potty
                                    training and sleeping through the
night take just a few weeks at the most to be 
completely
                                    done.  It gets better day by day 
actually.  Some pups are essentially 
house-broken in 2 or 3 weeks.
 
There
                                    has to be a balance between resonding to 
him when he might need to "go" and avoiding 
him
                                    training you to come on his command.
 
Remember
                                    to say the same words when you take 
him out to go potty...those words, like 
"Go
                                    outside" and "Go do your business" or 
whatever you choose..will become
commands
                                    for him to go to the bathroom.  
And always praise him when he "goes".  So he 
comes
                                    to know that is what you want of him. 
 
Having
                                    to take a puppy out every 2 hours to go 
to the bathrooom is a little too often to have 
to
                                    go potty - even at this age.  Surely he 
isn't going
                                    potty every 2 hours..every trip 
outside?  He should
                                    actually be ableto "hold it"
4,5 or even 6 hours if timed right even at this
age.
 
Try
                                    this:
 
I would feed him for the last time of the day 
at
                                    around maybe 5:00 or 6:00 pm and then 
withhold food for the night; and, of course 
take
                                    the water away too around 6:00pm.  Take 
him out Immediately
                                    after the last evening 
feeding of the day and then take him out
again
                                    one last time right before you go to bed..
 
Stay out there until he at
                                    least pees if 
possible.  Walking around with him
                                    can simulate
the potty..as does taking him back to the same 
place to go potty
                                    each time.
 
 
Very first
                                    thing in the morning, take him out 
to potty. And then feed him and return his 
water
                                    to him..and the day starts again by 
taking him out right after eating.  Hopefully,
he will not have gone potty in his crate 
overnight.
 
Now,
                                    if he goes potty in his crate...assuming 
it is a large crate, you might try dividing the
crate
                                    with some fence wire, plywood or 
something sturdy to make it smaller..just big 
enough
                                    for him to lay down comfortably ..then 
he will really try hard not to go potty if he
possibly
                                    can...they hate to "go" and just
lay in it.
 
The
                                    nightly whining and yelping should be over 
very soon..he is just crying and missing Mom 
and
                                    littermates ...and this is also upsetting 
his digestion too.  This will largely be over 
after a week or so. 
                                    He is lonely and in the 
process of forgetting Mommy and bonding to 
you
                                    two.  
 
Your
                                    choices are...
 
1. bring the crate in by the bed at night..it
sometimes
                                    seems to reassure a puppy to hear you
breathing so he isn't alone. They are not used 
to
                                    being alone at night. Pack animals like 
company.  Sometimes
                                    a hotwater bottle (warm) 
wrapped in a towel will reassure and simulate 
company.  This puppy "crib"right next to the 
bed always worked
                                    best for me.
 
2.Or place the crate far away in the house,
                                    run
a fan in your bedroom to mask the crying so you
can not hear him and just
                                    go check on him by 
clock schedule rather than when he cries.
 
3.
                                    A few of us hardy fools bring them to bed 
with us for a while...there is some "accident" 
in
                                    the bed danger in doing that..and of course 
doggy smell.
 
Remember
                                    to bring a little of his fresh bowel 
movement to the Vet..just a little thimble full
in
                                    a plastic baggy.  They can do a quick 
flotation/slide/microscope
                                    look/ test and look 
for any sign of worms or coccidosis (
the protozoa).  Shouldn't be any, but
there could be.
 
It
                                    will be better before you know it.  This too
shall pass.  Thanks for the pictures...keep em 
coming!
 
Good
                                    luck,
 
Lyle and Kathy Williams
 
HERE
                                    IS SOMETHING WE WROTE ABOUT THE EFFECTS
ON A PUPPY OF GOING TO A NEW HOME:
 
Bev
                                    Wrote a few months ago:

Hi, just wanted to let you know how things are going. He started crying

shortly after I left your house, then threw up and then pooped all over the place,

poor baby. When I pulled over I put him on the front seat and he dozed on and

off the whole way home. I tried to give him drinks and let him pee but he didn't

want any water til later that evening. Then he drank a fair amount. He held his

pee the whole way home I think. He took a big pee in the yard when we got

here. He's eaten a little, but not a lot. I did mix a little milk with his food and

warmed it up a bit which he liked. I have not seen him poop since the trip

home unless I missed it outside. I slept with him on the floor, then on the

couch, then with him in my bed cuz it was so uncomfortable for me. He was

glad to be with me although now I'm trying to crate train him and it's so hard

listening to him cry, it sounds like he's dying of sadness. Tomorrow when I go

to work he'll be in there for 4 hours. How on earth do people get through this

part? Anyway, I just love him and I hope we can both get through the crate part.

He has an appointment with the vet tomorrow. He must be tired, I hope he can

sleep in there eventually. Hope all is well with you guys. Thanks again, Bev

 

WE WROTE TO BEV:

 
Dear
                                    Bev:

 Going to new homes is Always stressful for the pups - but they are resilient

and it all calms down soon.   But this stress can potentially create temporary

health problems that need to be watched for.

 

I am Very familiar with the throwup and poop on the trip to a new home situation. 

That is why I recommend having old towels, paper towels and covering seats

with plastic.  You can’t say I don’t warm everyone about that!  Lol  It is a very

very rare puppy that doesn’t do one or the other or Both in the first few miles

of driving.  It is really hard when I am by myself trying to drive with a puppy

upchucking or going potty suddenly.    I think it must be the unusual motion

of the vehicle that sets it off….like car sickness that people have.   Almost a

lways after the first upset most puppies settle down and ride just fine if they

can lay next to me or with head on my lap…and after a couple hundred miles

most of them will wake up from long naps and want to look out the window as

things speed by and it doesn’t seem to bother them at all.

 

It will take a while for the puppy’s  appetite to return after a trip to a new home…

he is going to be upset for a few days as he transitions from leaving familiar

surroundings…mom and siblings etc… and bonds with you.  A little bit of milk i

n the dry dog food may spark the puppy’s appetite.. and maybe a raw egg

mixed in or a little bit of soft food…like a little Mighty Dog Rice and Lamb

canned food mixed in may get a puppy to eat better. 

Occasionally puppies will show signs of  roundworms (worm eggs are just in the

environment and simply cannot be totally eliminated)…and we do an extended

5 day treatment with Panacur to kill and supress the worms.  That does not

mean that the worms are totally eliminated - that is impossible to do.    The

Pups could easily reacquire worms since we do not keep them penned up on

concrete but let them out to exercise and play in the yard.  

We work very hard to keep a clean environment and besides constantly picking

up waste and washing we also regularly use a strong bleach solution to clean the

kennel runs.  But not even a stong solution of Chlorine bleach can kill every

parasite or its eggs or cysts.

  

The Stress of weaning and going to a new home often does cause worms or

other parasites to flare up …and it is important that this be watched for.

  

Diarrhea is not unusual anyway in a puppy at this time.  Stress can cause

intestinal upset on by itself…but the same stress can cause worms to multiply

and other bacteria and parasites to multiply too.  The theory is that stress causes

the immune system to be supressed and become less efficient and this allows

parasites to multiply faster than usual.   This is particularly true with young

puppies since they have immature immune systems anyway.

 

Diarrhea in puppies should not be ignored since it can potentially be dangerous

because it weakens the puppy since he is not getting nourished by his food as

well and the fluid loss dehydrates him.  Diarrhea that lasts for more than 2 or 3

of times in a row probably needs attention. If it is yellowish or has any blood in

it then it definitely needs attention. 

In any event, you will definitely want to take a little poop sample in a jar or plastic

baggy to your Vet on the initial visit so he or she can check microscopically for

worms, eggs or cysts so that appropriate treatment can be started.

 

One possible cause for diarrhea could be “Coccidiosis” which just means that

Coccida (a parasitic one celled protozoa organism) is multiplying in the puppy’s

intestines.  See this website:

http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=A&A=680&S=1&SourceID=42

 

 Coccida is carried by the majority of all dogs and is easily acquired.  A dog’s

immune system usually supresses the coccida and they normally cause no ill

effects in adult dogs.   But,  puppies have less developed immune systems and

can have problems handling coccida and may need help.   The Stress of leaving

their familiar surroundings can sometimes supress a puppy’s immune system

enough to allow the coccida to rapidly multiply and so cause coccidiosis  - if they

are carrying the organism….which they may be. 

All of the puppies had good solid stools here and showed no signs of diarrhea at

all - except during the time that we were treating with Panacur which upsets their

digestive tracts.  We do not routinely test stools for coccida cysts or  administer

Albon if we don’t see loose stools or diarrhea.

 

My understanding is that coccida cannot be killed completely by anything

presently available - any more than we can kill all the parasitie and symbotic

organisms that are in our own intestines…in fact we would get very ill if we

could …which is what happens when we take some antiboitics and get an

imbalance in our own guts.   The most common treatment for coccida  is an

sulfa antibiotic called Albon (sulfadimethoxine).  We are cautious about using

sulfa drugs since we often have pregnant females and sulfa can cause birth

defects.   But sulfa is safe for puppies.   It comes in a liquid form (5% solution) 

and can easily be administered using a small syringe (needle removed) to squirt

the proper dosage down the puppy’s throat.  You might have to give it for several

days.  You can get this from your Vet.  Kaopectate is also sometimes

prescribed to slow the diarrhea down.

Another stress factor is crate-training which can be rough the first few days…

.and it might not be a bad idea to defer it..or just do it when you have to…l

ike when you go to work….  since the puppy is already stressed and upset

just by the new environment.  Our puppies are all introduced to the Crate early

on….but this will be his first time all alone in one so it will probably be

upsetting.  Basically, dogs are sociable creatures and need warmth and

contact with other dogs or people and suddenly the puppy is alone with no

one to cuddle up with.  You can try a hotwater bottle wrapped in a towel to

simulate some company.   He is definitely going to cry and it will sound

pitiful, but you will have to ignore it and try to go to him when he is not crying

otherwise he will be “trained” that he can get out by doing that and it will take

even longer for him to adjust.  This time passes in a very few days…maybe

even just a couple of days.  Remember to carry him outside to the spot you

want to train him to go to the bathroom immediately after he eats and praise

him excessively when he goes potty in the right place.

 

POST SCRIPT Jan2005....Got a Christmas Card from Bev (Thank you Bev!!)

Her and her growing both look and are doing great!!

 

 

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