"Bob,
 
"Pilot sounds like a great name!  It sounds like he is already assuming control of your "plane".. or rather unconsciously 
"Pilot"
                                    sounds like a great name!  It sounds like he is already
                                    assuming "control" of your "plane"..  or rather unconsciously
                                    trying to anyway.  LOL. 
                                     
As
                                    you know, even as puppies they are very smartdogs..and if you are not careful - he will
                                    train You to come to him...by fussing.
 
The
                                    first few days after bringing a new puppy home are going to be the roughest time for you 
and
                                    for the puppy.  Normally, by the end of a week to
                                    10 days, he will be mostly calmed down and it will be much much easier.   
 
Of course, once he feels "at
                                    home", comfortableand safe...then we move on to the "terrible 
twos" equivalent..meaning
                                    teething on your favorite shoes and furniture, if you are not 
alert.  But you know it is worth it....and this
is so much briefer
                                    and easier than it is with kids!
 
It
                                    is best to go get him out of his crate when he is NOT crying... that way he doesn't always 
think
                                    that crying, whimpering, howling or yelping is going to always summon you.  That 
is Not a good habit to get started.  
                                    So, I'd recommend that you wait for the crying to pause,
...and then
                                    go get him (when he is quiet) to take him out for potty - if it seems like it
is
                                    about time to do that. 
It is very similar to the behavior
                                    of a humanbaby...but, thank god, it doesn't last  for
months..potty
                                    training and sleeping through thenight take just a few weeks at the most to be 
completely
                                    done.  It gets better day by day actually.  Some pups are essentially 
house-broken in 2 or 3 weeks.
 
There
                                    has to be a balance between resonding to him when he might need to "go" and avoiding 
him
                                    training you to come on his command. 
Remember
                                    to say the same words when you take him out to go potty...those words, like 
"Go
                                    outside" and "Go do your business" or whatever you choose..will become
commands
                                    for him to go to the bathroom.  And always praise him when he "goes".  So he 
comes
                                    to know that is what you want of him.  
Having
                                    to take a puppy out every 2 hours to go to the bathrooom is a little too often to have 
to
                                    go potty - even at this age.  Surely he isn't going
                                    potty every 2 hours..every trip outside?  He should
                                    actually be ableto "hold it"4,5 or even 6 hours if timed right even at this
age.
 
Try
                                    this: 
I would feed him for the last time of the day 
at
                                    around maybe 5:00 or 6:00 pm and then withhold food for the night; and, of course 
take
                                    the water away too around 6:00pm.  Take him out Immediately
                                    after the last evening feeding of the day and then take him out
again
                                    one last time right before you go to bed.. 
Stay out there until he at
                                    least pees if possible.  Walking around with him
                                    can simulatethe potty..as does taking him back to the same 
place to go potty
                                    each time. 
 
Very first
                                    thing in the morning, take him out to potty. And then feed him and return his 
water
                                    to him..and the day starts again by taking him out right after eating.  Hopefully,
he will not have gone potty in his crate 
overnight.
 
Now,
                                    if he goes potty in his crate...assuming it is a large crate, you might try dividing the
crate
                                    with some fence wire, plywood or something sturdy to make it smaller..just big 
enough
                                    for him to lay down comfortably ..then he will really try hard not to go potty if he
possibly
                                    can...they hate to "go" and justlay in it.
 
The
                                    nightly whining and yelping should be over very soon..he is just crying and missing Mom 
and
                                    littermates ...and this is also upsetting his digestion too.  This will largely be over 
after a week or so. 
                                    He is lonely and in the process of forgetting Mommy and bonding to 
you
                                    two.   
Your
                                    choices are... 
1. bring the crate in by the bed at night..it
sometimes
                                    seems to reassure a puppy to hear youbreathing so he isn't alone. They are not used 
to
                                    being alone at night. Pack animals like company.  Sometimes
                                    a hotwater bottle (warm) wrapped in a towel will reassure and simulate 
company.  This puppy "crib"right next to the 
bed always worked
                                    best for me. 
2.Or place the crate far away in the house,
                                    runa fan in your bedroom to mask the crying so you
can not hear him and just
                                    go check on him by clock schedule rather than when he cries.
 
3.
                                    A few of us hardy fools bring them to bed with us for a while...there is some "accident" 
in
                                    the bed danger in doing that..and of course doggy smell.
 
Remember
                                    to bring a little of his fresh bowel movement to the Vet..just a little thimble full
in
                                    a plastic baggy.  They can do a quick flotation/slide/microscope
                                    look/ test and look for any sign of worms or coccidosis (
the protozoa).  Shouldn't be any, but
there could be.
 
It
                                    will be better before you know it.  This tooshall pass.  Thanks for the pictures...keep em 
coming!
 
Good
                                    luck, 
Lyle and Kathy Williams
 
HERE
                                    IS SOMETHING WE WROTE ABOUT THE EFFECTSON A PUPPY OF GOING TO A NEW HOME:
 
Bev
                                    Wrote a few months ago:Hi, just wanted to let you know how things are going. He started
                                    crying 
shortly after I left your house, then threw up and then pooped all over the place, 
poor baby. When
                                    I pulled over I put him on the front seat and he dozed on and
 off the whole way home. I tried to give him drinks
                                    and let him pee but he didn't 
want any water til later that evening. Then he drank a fair amount. He held his
                                    pee the whole way home I think. He took a big pee in the yard when we got 
here. He's eaten a little,
                                    but not a lot. I did mix a little milk with his food and 
warmed it up a bit which he liked. I have not seen
                                    him poop since the trip 
home unless I missed it outside. I slept with him on the floor, then on the 
couch,
                                    then with him in my bed cuz it was so uncomfortable for me. He was
 glad to be with me although now I'm trying to crate
                                    train him and it's so hard 
listening to him cry, it sounds like he's dying of sadness. Tomorrow when I go
                                    to work he'll be in there for 4 hours. How on earth do people get through this
 part? Anyway, I just love
                                    him and I hope we can both get through the crate part. 
He has an appointment with the vet tomorrow. He must
                                    be tired, I hope he can 
sleep in there eventually. Hope all is well with you guys. Thanks again, Bev
 
WE WROTE TO BEV: